I don't use P411, or DateCheck or any of the other screening services where you have to pay. I use a totally free service called Sex Key. Think of it as your Key to ... well, you know. To weed out the merely curious, the 'tire-kickers' who never buy, I require all site visitors to obtain an ID and password. In order to maintain your discretion, I use Sex Key to confirm your identity and issue passwords. That way, I don't have to have any of your personal information until we're ready to meet, flesh-to-flesh so make sure you get your Sexkey ID. xoxoxo